I’ve read the article of my teacher “Sir. Delariarte” on our Paulinian “the official publication of St. Paul of Iloilo” and he wrote 20 realization on his life and reflecting on it I got 12 that I should say my realization too so here it is!!!


1. Problems in our everyday living will teach us. What we can do and what we cannot do. They become a part of our lives that we could never run away from. But what amazed me is that problems have to be there to let us differentiate clearly from pain, happiness from
Sadness, sunrise from sunset and light from darkness.

2. Lies will always haunt us wherever we go. We should always seek what is true, what is beautiful and what is good. The many times we lied, we experience many deaths that would surely destroy trust and confidence in our relationship with other people



3. In time, emotional wounds will heal. The pain we suffered is hard to fathom. We are sometimes blinded by the many possibilities of recovery and “getting up” but I believe everything has its time. We just have to be patient and be willing to wait. We will wait and wait and will be waiting… in time…in time…

4. All of us do have limitation and we, at certain times succumb to sinfulness, which may hurt other people, most especially our loved ones. If god forgives, why cant we?

5. Life indeed is a series of “ups and downs” all of us should be ready and be watchful for tomorrow might bring about change, and this may, in turn change you life.

6. Some of us who are in the ocean f problems and worries, should learn how to cope positively or else, everything will turn out gray. Don’t swim in your own tears of slavery, and tread the shadows of darkness because we are left with no choice

7. People we love and care so much can possibly hurt us deeply. They are also the very persons we have disappointed and taken for granted. How can they accept and love us again is one big question. We always have to be optimistic with everything and think for the best.

8. Friendship is the closest people in our lives. They accompany us in our sorrows and difficulties, joys and triumphs. They are our ”life-support-systems”.

9. In friendship, there should be a sense of partnership and a value of openness. A best friend is a source of confidence and inspiration thereby gaining inner strength to face life’s greatest and strongest adversities.

10. Losing someone dear is losing a part of us. The twinge of experience is devastating but letting go is also a simple act of loving.

11. Sometimes we must be hurt in order to grow we must fall in order to know, we must lose in order to gain………
Some lessons are learned best through pain……




I’ll just repeat the no. 9 “In friendship, there should be a sense of partnership and a value of openness. A best friend is a source of confidence and inspiration thereby gaining inner strength to face life’s greatest and strongest adversities.”
it is true really!!!!!!
Now that Christmas is few days away and I’m here in Iloilo spending my Christmas not with my friends its so lonely!!!!
I want to spend my Christmas with my friend’s coz my friends are the only family I have and what is the saddest thing about this Christmas Ate Ronna is living on 26th. She will be going to Belgium. The saddest part is I don’t have a chance to see her. The only thing I can do now is to text text him and pray for him

And this Christmas I will not going to be online so I want to greet all of you now a “Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year” I will not be online coz my computer is still not functioning sad Christmas I have

I’m signing off from now but please leave a note on my Guestbook I will miss you all “Merry Christmas”

To all my friends Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year To all of you

To Ate Ronna Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year I will miss you and good luck wishing you all the happiness in the world I hope you will be happy there with your Fafa